01STATUS
One answer per cat
Mochi can be due while Luna is set. No shared “already fed” guess across faces.
PER CAT
STOP THE FEEDING TEXTS
Feeding status
Feeding status
should not live
in your texts.
iMessage is for life. Dinner is a receipt. Move the answer out of the thread — so the chat can be about something kinder.
12 unread. Half are “did you feed?”. None are a fact both of you trust.
One shared screenBoth phonesFree · no card
No nag spamNo hardwareInvite when ready
Endless thread · 0 receipts
THE WRONG MEDIUM
You already muted this conversation.
Not because you do not care — because chat is a terrible database.
- Sam: did you feed?
- Robin: I think so — wait
- Both: same question. Different day.
Love does not need a spreadsheet. Feeding status does need a place.Catter is that place — quiet, named, on both phones.
Retire the feeding threadOpen free. Leave the next “did you feed?” unanswered — on purpose.
Open Catter free
TEXTS VS RECEIPT
Bubbles, or one calm answer.
Same care. Different container.
In chat
Status buried under memes, logistics, and half-replies.
- No permanent record
- Tone leaks into care
- Always “I think so”
In Catter
Robin · kibble · 18:03 — open once. Done.
- Named receipt
- Both phones
- Chat free for real talk
Give the thread a night offFree household log. Status lives where both of you look.
Stop the texts
WHAT CHANGES
The question never needs to leave the house.
Four beats from habit to quiet.
You
Open chat
Fingers type “did you feed…” out of muscle memory.
You
Stop
Remember: the receipt lives in Catter now.
You
Open app
Dinner is already there — or still open.
Both
Close
Thread stays for jokes. Status stays logged.
Make this the defaultAbout a minute to set up. Every dinner quieter after.
Start free
HOW STATUS MOVES
Log once. Skip the bubble.
The next “did you feed?” can stay unsent.
Move status tonightFree · no card · both phones
Open free
“We still text all day. We just don’t text about the bowl.”
Feeding texts → ~0
MULTI-CAT HOME
Every cat has its own answer.
When two cats share a kitchen, one mixed signal is enough to double-feed the wrong one. Home keeps a separate next-meal for each face.
Due now
Feed Mochi now
Luna is set · dinner window is open
42m
vs schedule
!
Soft double-feed pauseLuna was just logged. Pour again only if you mean to.
02GUARD
Soft double-feed pause
If a meal was just logged, the next pour gets a calm check — not a hard lock.
CHECK FIRST03RECEIPT
Who · what · when
Robin’s wet food at 18:04 is the truth the next person sees on either phone.
SYNCED04FIX
Undo or edit
Wrong tap? Fix it before the other feeder acts on a bad receipt.
REPAIRABLE
OBJECTIONS
Honest answers.
Free to start. Reminders off by default. No card.
Do we still need to talk?
Yes — about everything else. Just not about whether dinner happened.
Will it spam us?
Reminders stay off until you turn them on.
Is it free?
Yes for the shared log. No card to open.
Hardware?
No. Hand-feeding homes only need a receipt both phones share.
MUTE THE FEEDING CHAT
Keep the love. Lose the thread.
Open free, invite the other feeder, put status where it belongs.
- Free · no card
- No forced reminders
- Both phones